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Tuesday, July 8, 2014

Interview with Pam Branstetter


With today’s hectic schedules of work, school, kids, trying to make ends meet, it’s easy to get sucked into a life of meaningless repetition. Due to the pressures of daily life, it’s simple to put our relationship with Father God on the back burner. Adventures with Abba is a collection of short stories about Pam and Corbett Branstetter’s experiences with God. These heartwarming nuggets are designed to transport the reader from a frenzied lifestyle into a cherished relationship with a loving, caring, faithful Heavenly Father. Aptly called “adventures”, these stories reveal new and exciting heights He took this couple in His word, during prayer, and in dreams. Some of these experiences developed radical, life-changing lessons, while others nurtured food for thought, or humorous anecdotes. With just a few moments each day in Adventures with Abba, your life will never be the same. 

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Welcome, Pam Branstetter, author of Adventures with Abba!!


Your book sounds so interesting! Please, tell us more. 

Over the years, Corbett and I have had several encounters or adventures with God. For some reason, Father God chose to teach us life-changing lessons through dreams, visions, or during seasons of prayer. Adventures with Abba is a collection of our escapades, with a short explanation of how they pertain to each one of us in our daily lives, and how we each can come to know Him as the loving, sensitive, caring Father God He truly is.

What inspired you to write this book?

Shortly after these occurrences began, the Lord spoke to my heart and told me to write them down. Keeping a notepad and pen with me at all times, I recorded each event. I would share these encounters with others in sermons, teachings, and to individuals as the Lord led. Seeing how God used our experiences to bless others, He placed in me a burning desire to publish them and even more people could receive His word.

One day we had a guest speaker come to our church who moved in the prophetic. Without knowing me or anything about me, he called me out and said, "The Lord says you are a writer. Just as God told Habakkuk to write the vision in Habakkuk 2:2, you are to write the vision. Keep a pen and notepad by your bed so that when the Lord speaks, you may record it."

The Lord gave me a confirmation of what He had already placed in my heart. God's timing is perfect. It took a few years, but Adventures with Abba is the completion of God's instructions.

Tell us about your family!

Corbett and I have been married for over forty years. We have two wonderful sons who married beautiful, God-fearing women. They are both raising our five grandchildren to love and serve God. Our oldest, Shawn is a very talented and successful graphic designer, while his wife Jennifer is at home taking care of their three little boys.

Our youngest, Kevin, is in the navy. He and his wife, Vonda, serve in their local church. Our oldest grandson, Austin, aspires to be a preacher. Regan, our only granddaughter, desires to be involved in praise and worship. Our three youngest grandsons, Anthony, Zachary, and Jacob, enjoy sports and are a joy to be around. We feel very blessed to know our children and grandchildren love the Lord.

What would you say to someone like me who wants to have experiences with the Lord like you and Corbett did?

God is not a respecter of persons. Just like an earthly father, He longs to spend time with you, His child. However, He will not deal with you the same way He deals with us. We can't put God in a box and expect Him to reveal Himself the same with everyone. We all have different personalities, different experiences, various upbringings, and He knows how to effectively reach each of us on our level, in ways we can receive the most from Him.

If you want more of God, start by giving Him more of you. Get into His Word. Spend time in prayer. Take time to listen for His voice. If you have your heavenly language, pray in tongues as it says in Jude 20. "But you, beloved, building yourselves up on your most holy faith; praying in the Holy Spirit." Father God craves for experiences with you more than you desire them from Him.

What would you say to inspire someone who wants to write their testimonies and experiences?

By all means, write them down and share them with others! Your testimony is powerful. Revelation 12:11 tells us, "And they overcame him by the blood of the Lamb and by the word of their testimony." Many times I have reread Corbett's and my adventures we've had with God and they have brought me much strength, encouragement, and peace. To be able to look back and remember all the things He brought us through causes our faith to rise up. He brought me through this before and I know He'll do it again.

Others need to hear your testimonies as well. To know someone else has "plowed the field", so to speak, of what you're dealing with, is encouraging. Your experience could be exactly what the person in line at the grocery store needs to hear. God will bring people across your path who are desperate to hear your God encounter. There is no greater joy than witnessing someone else's life changed by the power of God through your testimony.

Thank you, Pam, for stopping by today and sharing about your inspiring book Adventures with Abba.

To connect with Pam, you can find her at



I like the last line of the synopsis above--With just a few moments each day in Adventures with Abba, your life will never be the same. Sounds like my kind of adventure!

Friday, July 4, 2014

Happy Birthday to You


As a kid, I used to think all the fireworks and hoopla on the 4th of July were especially for me. You mean it's not? (hehe) My uncle would buy a whole bunch of fireworks and let them off in his big yard. Or the cousins would come for the weekend, and we'd play in the basement until a minute past midnight so they could all yell "Happy birthday" to me.

Today isn't too different. I'm going to stay awake until at least one minute after midnight to wish myself a happy birthday—and to make sure my present for you is ready.

I'm giving you a birthday gift? Oh, yeah!



FOR TODAY ONLY . . . Stage Wars, my Youth Theater Adventures #1, is FREE in Kindle. That's right, FREEEEEE!!! Don't you love free? I sure hope you'll stop by the Amazon page and pick up this fun-filled adventure for ages 10+. It's my happy birthday present to you. Aren't birthdays grand? Especially when a girl's celebrating on firecracker day!

This is what people are saying about Stage Wars:

"I loved it! I would recommend this book to anyone who likes adventure."
"I enjoyed reading it and found it hard to put down: a good read for kids of all ages."
"I know kids will enjoy reading this book as the main characters embark on a time travel adventure of a lifetime."
"Before giving copies to our grandchildren, my husband and I read with delight the escapades of Shem, TJ, and their cast of lively characters. Along with them, we got swept away by the Time Spinner"


Join Shem, TJ, Debz, Philly, and Claire for a load of fun in their time-travel adventures, friendship dilemmas, and love of Youth Theater.


Tuesday, July 1, 2014

CrossReads Book Blast with Elizabeth Maddrey

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Hope Deferred By Elizabeth Maddrey

About the Book:


Christian fiction for women.

It's been a tough year. Twin sisters June and July and their husbands spent the last year trying to start a family. Now, as the sisters work with fertility specialists to see how medicine can help them conceive, each must determine what treatment is right for them in the midst of overwhelming options, none of which promise immediate results.

Will their deferred hope leave them heart sick, or start them on the path to the fulfillment of their dreams?


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Elizabeth Maddrey began writing stories as soon as she could form the letters properly and has never looked back. Though her practical nature and love of math and organization steered her into computer science for college and graduate school, she has always had one or more stories in progress to occupy her free time. When she isn’t writing, Elizabeth is a voracious consumer of books and has mastered the art of reading while undertaking just about any other activity. Elizabeth is a member of ACFW and lives in the suburbs of Washington D.C. with her husband and their two incredibly active little boys.

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Thursday, June 26, 2014

Death to Self


Self-will. Selfishness. Self-centeredness. Self-importance. Self-pity. Self-absorption. Self-conceit. Self-flattery. Self-indulgence. Self-seeking. Self-satisfaction.

In Merriam-Webster's Collegiate Dictionary (11th Edition), there are three-and-a-half pages dedicated to "self" words. Our language has a plethora of words describing how important we are, how we're great, better than others, our ideas higher than our neighbors, how we excel.

Aren't we fabulous? Me. Me. Me.

Quite the contrast with the man who said "Unless a kernel of wheat falls to the ground and dies, it remains only a single seed. But if it dies, it produces many seeds."



Jason and I are hobby gardeners. Mainly, it's an experiment. But one thing's for sure, unless we bury that "dead" seed in the ground, it's not going to come alive and yield fruit.

I think there's a part in all of us that wants to be the best, first, prettiest, strongest, most liked, etc. Maybe, just being human? The flesh against the spirit thing. But, when it comes right down to it, do we want success as in "I want to do these things for the Lord" or do we long for our success to be better than Joe's or Sue's? Do we dream of our product—books, writing, work, ministry—blessing the Lord or outshining our competitors or neighbors?

The disciples argued over just such a thing. Who's the greatest? Who would do the biggest exploits for the kingdom of God? Jesus asked them what they'd been arguing about. Arguing. Can you imagine? These guys are following Jesus, the Son of God, along a dirt road and they're arguing about who's the greatest. Of course, they didn't want to tell him what they'd been disagreeing (bragging) about. Would you?


Jesus' response is priceless. "If anyone wants to be first, he must be the very last, and the servant of all." In another verse, these words pulse right to the heart of pride versus humility: "If anyone would come after me, (ANYONE) he must deny himself and take up his cross daily and follow me." Death to self.

Since I write second chance stories, I've been thinking about husbands and wives and death to self. I'm reminded of the section in Ephesians that tells men to love their wives just as Christ loved the church and gave up everything for her. Wow! Can you imagine such a great love? A husband and wife who choose self-denial? Always putting the other one first? Sure, in marriage it's give and take, and there are times we've all been willing to give up our will, our rights, and go along with our spouse's wishes and needs. But all the time? Whew. That would change everything. Death to self.


Picture a husband and wife in the middle of a heated argument. Their mouths are wide open as dirt-rot slides over their tongues and spews into the air. Suddenly, in each of their hearts, simultaneously, the Lord speaks to them, reminding them about dying to self. Loving your neighbor as yourself. The husband giving himself up for her. Her submitting to him as to the Lord. Being last instead of demanding to be first. Servant of all. Death to self.

Yep. In a moment, tempers cool. Hearts react to the Holy Spirit's presence and prodding. We never meant to say those things. I'm so sorry. Repentance. Maybe tears. Forgiveness. Hope for change. Renewal. Perhaps, hugs and kisses.


Death to self can change everything. Sometimes in a moment.

In my upcoming book April's Call, Ty is faced with some tough choices. He can demand his own way and cause trouble between him and Winter, or he can denying himself, love his wife even like Christ loves the church. Become a servant in heart. Putting her needs before his own. It's always a choice. Not necessarily an easy one. Death to self is a spiritual fight between the flesh and the spirit. Which will win?

I hope the next time I'm itching to choose selfishness, self-pity, and self-centeredness, I will remember the death-to-self part of God's plan for my life. Jesus, help me.

It's not easy. But, then, death never is.


   

Tuesday, June 24, 2014

Second Chances in the Woods


Eight years ago, Jason and I moved our home from the city to the woods. We'd desired and prayed for land for a long time, ever since we'd sold our remote property in Alaska, so living in the country was going to be a dream come true for us. Our contractor cleared a big area to make it usable, but in the process the house site became like a dust bowl. After our house was placed on a foundation, we took the above picture of the backside.

The thick forest remained behind us, but we had dirt all around us. Since I'm allergic to dirt, that became a problem. We planted grass seed and watered like crazy. Night after night, in the dark after work, Jason would water in the front yard, and I would take the back. Unfortunately, we didn't understand about topsoil, so we faced an uphill battle to get those seeds to grow.

Because of the deer population, we enclosed our backyard with fencing. There, I can grow what I want without fearing another deer raid. Unless, of course, they jump a seven-foot-high fence—or someone leaves the gate open.

I took this picture today of the same viewpoint as the one above, eight years later. A testimony of new life and regrowth--and our determination!


If you've read any of my writing, you know I love second chances. This morning, with all the summer growth and beauty around me, I pondered second chances in nature. Jesus spoke a lot about natural occurrences and likened them to spiritual things. It means a lot to me to walk through my land and see His handiwork teaching me too.

Before we moved in, the previous owner had harvested some trees, and the loggers cut four roads to the top of the mountain. While kind of ugly, these cleared roads were handy as we loved to walk all over in the woods. Surely, these passageways would always be there for us, I thought naively.

After eight years, it's amazing how these roads, which were scraped almost bare by heavy machinery, have entered a new season of life. It's like a miracle!

Here's a picture I took on my walk this morning. We used to drive our Ram Charger up this road to gather wood. Now it's impassable.



My husband recently drove the lawnmower up this path, just so we could use it for our evening walks.

Isn't it amazing how God planned for things to re-grow, to have new life, to reconcile past wrongs, to live again? It's so fabulous, it's mind boggling. Where destruction happened, new life springs up and not only is reconciliation birthed, freedom and growth thrive! When God makes a plan, He makes a good one. It isn't weak. Or helpless. It's strong and powerful.

Several years ago, Jason felled a tree. When it dropped to the ground, part of its branches crushed a small tree beneath it. Over the years, we've observed this plant stretch out and grow bigger and taller, crooked as it is. Each spring, I thrill to see it emerge from winter straighter as it reaches for the sky. Sure, a wrong happened to it. A big old tree fell down "wham" on top of it. But, today, it's thriving in its second chance at life.

Here's a picture of my little miracle tree in the forefront. Notice its crooked limbs. Oh, but it's reaching for the sky!


I love transplanting. It's a risk every time I uproot something, not knowing if it will survive my human efforts of relocation. But with love and tender care, and if the deer stay away, they do quite well. Because the back of our property is woodsy and the roadside area is open, I'm attempting to bring the woods forward. This will give us privacy and hopefully, in time, absorb some dust from reaching our house.


Watching these small trees thrive in their new environment reminds me of the saying "Grow where you are planted!" I think that ties in so well with second chances. Sure, these transplanted trees would have grown in the woods. But I choose to transplant trees that appear to be growing too close to another tree, where they're not getting their share of light, or they might die. In some ways, I'm giving these saplings a new chance.

Just try to hold back the forest from re-growth and new life! It's not going to happen. And it won't stop happening in believers either. God is a God of second chances. Of new beginnings.

In 2 Corinthians 5:19 it tells how God has "committed to us the message of reconciliation." It's all around us. Starting with nature. The things I see as I walk in the woods are a demonstration of the Lord's great love us. We're starting over. Brand new. Blessed with second chances every day. I love it! 

Tuesday, June 3, 2014

Crossreads Book Blast: Let Me Walk with You by Gisela Yohannan

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Let Me Walk with You: Letters of Faith and Strength 
By Gisela Yohannan

About the Book:

Are you feeling alone or overwhelmed in your journey with the Lord Jesus? In this volume of letters, originally addressed to women serving on the challenging mission fields of South Asia, Gisela Yohannan shares precious lessons from her own life and insights from God’s Word that will fill your heart with faith and strength, no matter where you are in your walk with Jesus. By His grace, you will make it!


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Gisela Yohannan serves the Lord along with her husband, K.P. Yohannan, who is the founder and international director of Gospel for Asia. Gisela ministers to thousands of Christian women in many countries, teaching God’s Word with deep insight and practical life application. She has written four other books.

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Monday, June 2, 2014

A Smile a Day



We've all heard the adage an apple a day keeps the doctor away. So we wash those pesticides off, gobble up our apple a day, and hope it's true.

There are also things to enjoy every day for emotional well-being--like a smile! Have you ever walked into a gathering and didn't know anyone? Maybe, if you're like me, you look around for a friendly face. Awkwardly, you move to your seat or table, wondering if you should make a run for the exit and forget all about attending the conference or meeting. Then, suddenly, someone smiles at you.





In that moment, everything changes.The breath you've been holding in eases out. You relax. You smile back. Then, you know everything's going to be okay.

One time a lady came up to me in church and, with tears in her eyes, shook my hand and thanked me for smiling at her. Yes, for simply smiling! She said my smile had encouraged her. Now, that floored me. I didn't have a Colgate-smile, and in fact, I felt quite self-conscious about my teeth. But, apparently, my smile had been welcoming to her during a lonely time in her life, and it was a cool moment for me.

How little effort it takes to smile, yet the simple facial expression can say so much. It can say...welcome, I care about you, I'm glad you're here, you matter to me, I've missed seeing you, the world is a better place with you in it, you belong.

All that in a smile? Yes, and moreThink about what someone's smile does for you. What does it tell you?

Have you ever stood behind a mom holding a small child and had that baby or toddler grin and grin at you? I have. Right then, it changed how I was feeling. The child's smile pulled me in and warmed me. Like a big hug.



Oh, to smile and laugh like a child who cares nothing about what her teeth look like or about the wrinkle lines around her eyes. Haha...such freedom!

Everyone needs cheering up sometime. A smile can go a long ways in making new friends, in encouraging coworkers, in saying hello across a crowded gathering, and telling family and friends you care about them. Without saying a word, you say they matter. Because, in the end, we all need to know that.