In my WIP, April's Storm, April wishes her
preacher-husband would glance across the wedding attendees and catch her eye,
notice her, send her a silent message with a sizzling look. But she realizes, Chad,
the twenty-four-hours-a-day-servant guy, would never do that. He's operating in
his official capacity at a wedding—she knows this—yet she still longs for him
to single her out.
Have you
ever wanted that? Have you ever felt a need for your husband to take your hand
or kiss your cheek or just let his gaze linger on you an extra moment?
I have. Even after thirty-nine years of marriage, the
need for my husband's acknowledgement might come at a less-than-perfect time for him. Still, from across a crowded church or a busy store, if Jason glances my way, it changes the moment between us. It takes such a tiny chunk of
time for a husband to remind his wife that he loves her. That he has eyes for her
alone. To remind her that when he's done with all the busyness of work or
service, he's looking forward to being alone with her. Remember how it was when
you were dating? You could stir up all kinds of romantic sparks without saying
a word. A glance is surely worth a couple hundred words. It says, "I'm still mad
about you. I want you. Let's hold hands. When this meeting's over, I'm going to
give you a kiss that'll make your toes curl. I can't wait to hold you in my
arms. I'm glad I married you."
For me, that means so much. I can't speak for a guy, but I can
guess he likes those special connections too. Let your eyes talk. Tell your husband or wife you're
wild about him/her, even from a distance.
Eyes sparkle, glow, shine. Let your eyes
radiate love. And those little glances will take on a language of their own that can last a lifetime.
I'm the same way with my husband after all these years! I know he needs it to. If I don't hug him when he comes home, he tells me later I forgot.
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ReplyDeleteOh, Terri,
ReplyDeleteThat's so awesome! It's all the little things that add up to help our marriages work and be great. Thanks for responding! Blessings...